Making a Friendly Conversation
Many years ago, I told a friend during a conversation, "You don’t know what you are saying." This might be a typical response when you are strongly opinionated and feel your view is superior to others. However, such words are condescending, diminish self-esteem, and come across as arrogant. When my friend called my attention to it, I later apologized and promised to do better next time. Speaking is an art, and we can learn the art of speaking skillfully and professionally. Here are a few strategies that I think would be helpful. Credit: Image by MabelAmber on Pixabay 1. Agree to Disagree One effective strategy is to agree to disagree. Start by appreciating their personality or viewpoint so they do not see your comment as a personal attack. For instance, you might say, "Hmm, your point actually got me thinking, and I appreciate your thought process. But don’t you think…? This is because…." This approach acknowledges their perspective, making them feel valued and int...